Dan Savage

I am a straight man. From high school through college and after, I loved me some women.

I read your column every week

I’m from the other side of the country

I am a 23-year-old straight female.

Any time I have relationship questions, I always ask my inner Dan Savage, and he never leads me astray

I’m a 27-year-old divorced woman

I really need some help and comfort.

My mother left her e-mail logged in on my computer, and I decided to be an asshole and snoop out of boredom

I am a 33-year-old married male

I am a woman in a relatively new relationship. Prior to this guy, I had a deep disgust for anything anal-related.

I’m a 21-year-old woman with bi-curious

first line of story

I have been married for 16 years and have three children

I spoke at Pacific University in Forest Grove, Ore., last Thursday night